Although I am thankful for everything that has happened to me in my life thus far, I think I would tell my kids to do a few things differently.
1. Do NOT listen to everything your parent's tell you. I know that I am still young, but sometimes you just have break the rules. Learning the hard way is a great way experience things in your life. Just make sure that they aren't that life altering though.
2. Even though high school may seem like one of the most important times in your life, when you get older most of those people will not matter. The popular kids usually burn out and become nobodies, while the nerds end up being the successful ones.
3. If you want to learn something, actually do it. Don't just read about it. For example, if you want to be fluent in a language you need to actually practice speaking the language, maybe go abroad? Do not just take Spanish classes throughout school where the only people you talk to are other non native speaking Americans.
4. When deciding on colleges, look as far away as possible (if you are able to). Going to the large state school with everyone who went to high school with you will never let you break out of your hometown bubble. Going out of state for school let's you meet different types of people and experience more.
5. Finally, never hesitate to ask or tell your parents something that you think may get you in trouble or be stupid. Although parents can be scary- they brought you into the world so ultimately they want to help you succeed in it as well.
